Stuck In the Past

Dear Bitter Sweet,

This guy i was with broke things off with me, and then we hung out not too long ago, and things happened. then he stopped talking to me, and when my friend became single they are all over each other. whats up with that? i still like him a lot.. and it hurts me to see my friend like him too. is there any advice you could give me to stop liking him so much, and move on????

xoxo
stuck in the past




Dear Stuck In The Past,

I have to say that your ex hooking up with your friend should be enough motivation to move on. But the heart wants what it wants, and sometimes it makes us feel things we know aren't right. It sounds like this guy is a little bit of a player. Going from one girl to the next is a pretty immature thing to do, and he's definitely not worth your time. I can tell your a bit on the young side, so the best advice I can give you is that guys are going to come and go, and most of them at this age are going to be this if not more immature. Any guy stupid enough not to realize how great you are, is not worth your time. Let him go, and move on.

Sincerely,
Sweet


Dear Stuck In The Past,

Question: What is your definition of friend?! What kind of friend would go and decide to be "all over" someone that YOU like.. your ex!? Sounds like this guy is a DOG. You can find better. He obviously doesn't like you the way that you like him! Don't be silly honey. Go out, have some fun, meet new ones, without your SO CALLED FRIEND!! Have you ever heard that saying "Never make someone a priority when to them your just an option"? That's for you dear. Take it and run with it.. AWAY from them!!

Sincerely,
BITTER