I've been with my boyfriend now for almost two years, and we live together. But for some reason we haven't had sex in almost a month. He keeps telling me that it's because he's "tired", but I can't help be be a little offended by this. Should I keep my cool or dig deeper and get to the bottom??
Thanks,
Dry-Spell
Well let me start by saying this tends to happen from time to time in relationships and it's perfectly normal. Especially after two years. Sometimes our schedules become so hectic and we become so frazzled that at the end of the day all we want to do is go to sleep! It's best to be patient when this happens. Try to be understanding of his energy level. Does he have a lot going on at work or school? Is he trying to make time, or do you get the feeling he's just being lazy. Try cooking him his favorite meal and wearing something sexy to entice him. If that doesn't work then yes, you should definitely get to the bottom of it. Ask him why the change, and what you might be able to do to help him. Sex is a part of relationships, and with-holding it causes confusion. Communication is the key.
Sincerely,
Sweet
Dear Dry-Spell,
Wow that sucks that your man doesn't want you anymore!! Instead of crying and whining about it you need to get him to tell you what's wrong! Do you trust him? To me it sounds like he could have another chick with better merchandise than you!! ALL men want SEX.. Hmm.. Does he happen to spend a lot of time at his male friend's houses? You might want to check into that.. He might have the hots for Joe's and NOT Joanna's if u know what I mean! My suggestion is that u make sure your kitty is clean (no one wants a nasty kitty) and attack him TONIGHT.. If it STILL doesn't work, there just might be something wrong with you that you're not seeing, have his things packed by the time he gets off of work (assuming he works) and get him OUTTA THERE because chances are, he's just using you for something else.. money? A place to stay? Your car? Who knows.. Maybe he just thinks your "goodies" are no good!! Get it together Dry-Spell..
Sincerely,
BITTER"
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