Attention Deficit

Dear bitter sweet,

My boyfriend is really not treating me very well. We fight more than anything and I hate that.... he's really hurting my feelings a lot. we have been dating for awhile and we have had many great times. but we just got into a big fight and he stopped texting me back. then i called him and said uh. why are you ignoring me. and he said... ha. I'm playing golf then hung up.. and the fight was about him treating me bad... because last week i had a really really bad week and i admit i wasn't being my best to him but i was trying so hard under the circumstance. please just help me.... please


Dear Friend,

Well, I'm sorry to hear that you and your sweetie are entering hard times. Getting into fights is just another reality of relationships. When this happens it's usually best to be a little patient. Women are very quick to resolve, while men usually like to think things out on their own time. If he's not ready to talk, then give him the opportunity to get ready. Let him know that you understand he's angry still, but that you would like to resolve the issue at hand. Tell him, that at one point you would like to talk and that you are going to give him space for now. After a few days, the two of you can sit down and talk rationally. And honey, don't have this rational conversation via text. Face to face is best.

Good Luck!

Sincerely,
Sweet

Dear Friend,

Ok I can tell by reading this that you are tooooo sensitive and CLINGY! Go get a hobby! Men usually dont like woman that are on them 24-7.. Give him some breathing space!! Stop calling him all the time.. From the sounds of it, you are probably a "bug-a-boo".. STOP.. It makes you look pathetic, desperate and it shouts out "I NEED YOU TO VALIDATE ME".. ugh.. On the other hand, women have mood swings honey, and if he is mean to you because you're having a bad week then you need to trade him in for a MAN. You seem like a sweet girl, TOO SWEET if you ask me! Get a back-bone! Stop calling him so much and let HIM chase YOU. If you guys can't stop fighting all the time, LEAVE.. No one is holding you back right!? Let it go.. crying is for babies. SUCK IT UP

Sincerely,
BITTER